“read your blog… Not to be a downer but God also let the car crash.”
That was the message that popped up yesterday afternoon from an old high school friend I’ve recently reconnected with.
I’ll have to admit, I was surprised. By what I could tell from our interactions, he wasn’t (isn’t) saved – and I’ll ask him to correct me if I’m wrong. I can’t recall the last time someone approached me about my faith like that. But there it was, blinking on my phone just as I’d been about to lay down and get some rest.
God let the car crash yesterday.
I’m no stranger to bad things happening to good people. Not just a worldly good, either – Christian good, the kind of good that comes from trying to follow in the footsteps of Christ. The Bible is just as familiar with it, too.
One of the first people to spring into my mind was Job. Job was a righteous man in God’s sight – “blameless and upright; he feared God and shunned evil” (1:1). He was prosperous, with a large family, a large amount of animals, and a large amount of servants.
Then, one day, Satan came to God. God points out Job, and Satan points out that God has “put a hedge around him and his household and everything he has” (1:10). Satan states grandly that Job will not be nearly so faithful when all Job has is taken away, and so God gives Satan the power to destroy everything Job has.
Satan leaves.
First, Job’s oxen and donkeys are stolen. Then his sheep are burned to a crisp, then his camels are stolen – then a house collapses on all his children, killing them. All catastrophes, one right after the other.
I want to stop here for a second. Can we just think about that? This man loses the source of his wealth and his children in one fell swoop. Because God handed over all that he had to the control of Satan, just to show how righteous Job was.
God wasn’t punishing Job. In fact, it was because of Job’s faithfulness that God put him to the test.
Those of you who know the story know what comes after. Job loses all of his children, tears his clothes in mourning, and says: “The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away; may the name of the Lord be praised.” (1:21)
Philippians 4:4 says, “Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!” Talk about taking that seriously, Job. I don’t have children yet, but I have a feeling that if I lost one of my children, I wouldn’t be anywhere near praising the Lord. Quite the opposite, most likely. Heck, I can’t even get through a bad sales day at work without asking God why He didn’t help me through like He did last month. (I’ve been working on that one…)
But here we have Job committing no sin in his reaction (1:22), instead praising the Lord. Satan, not to be thwarted, comes to God in the next chapter and tells Him that “a man will give all he has for his own life. But now stretch out your hand and strike his flesh and bones, and he will surely curse you to your face.” (2:4-5)
God gives Satan the go-ahead, saying Satan must only spare Job’s life. So Satan goes out and covers Job with sores. Job’s wife tells him to give up on God already, but instead, Job – who we know, from the rest of the book, would rather be dead at this point than continue living in his grief – tells her, “You are talking like a foolish woman. Shall we accept good from God, and not trouble?” (2:10)
I’m only in chapter 10 of the book right now; I don’t know how the rest of it will play out. But one very, very big theme is jumping out at me as I sit here with my Bible.
Job did not know what wrong he did in the sight of God to induce such punishment, but accepts God’s judgement, for who is a mere mortal to stand before the judgement of the Lord?
Job’s friends (at least the first two) believe that God punishes only the evil and saves the righteous.
We, as the readers, have a view Job and his friends did not have: why God did it all in the first place.
We know that all of this happened to Job, happened because God wanted to glorify his servant, to show Satan that no matter what happened, the faithful would not turn from God. As I type this, a dozen different ideas have begun to flood my mind, concepts of why Satan expected Job to turn from God and the kind of worshipers God wants and fosters.
But the big thing I want to highlight?
Job is a man of faith. His view on catastrophe is different from that of his friends. While his friends tell Job to repent, for he must have done some wrong, Job understands to some degree that, in the end, he cannot be right in God’s eyes.
“How then can I dispute with him? How can I find words to argue with him?” -Job 9:14
“The wisdom of the wise will perish, the intelligence of the intelligent will vanish.” -Isaiah 29:14, quoted in 1 Corinthians 1:19
What happened didn’t make sense to Job’s first two friends; it didn’t make sense to Job either. But, while his friends assume Job can plead his case before God, Job knows better. God’s wisdom is beyond our understanding.
So yes… God did let our car crash yesterday, my friend. I don’t know what lesson you expected me to learn from all of this, or what you thought I should understand.
I can only hope I expressed even a small fraction of this to you. “For the creation was subjected to frustration, not by its own choice, but by the will of the one who subjected it, in hope that the creation itself will be liberated from its bondage to decay and brought into the freedom and glory of the children of God.” -Romans 8:20-21
We’re not made to have pleasant lives on earth, and sometimes it has nothing to do with how bad we are, but the fact that the earth is filled with sin. The very earth is full of sin.
But.
One very, very big but.
“And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” -Romans 8:28
In that, I can and will hope, my dear friend. My God loves me, even though this world is full of the sin caused by the Fall. He will see me through, and I hope – someday – you will see Him too.
Edit: I have been told by another friend that the only verse I really needed to share here was Jeremiah 29:11. ‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.’
While I agree that that single verse expresses the concept entirely – that while bad things might happen, God has everything set in place to our aid – I really don’t like the idea of ditching what I just spent two hours writing, so I’m leaving it as a footnote instead. You’re welcome, my dear. >.>
Edit no. 2, 7/16: The friend I originally wrote this about did not take kindly to this post. I decided to take it down last night, immediately after he messaged me, thinking it was better not to offend a friend over a single blog post.
I’m putting it back up, unedited. I’m surrounded by a Christian community, personally, and every person I have come to with this matter (sometimes in tears) has encouraged me to keep it up – spiritual warfare at its finest. So, anonymous friend… you know what my first reaction was and you know my sincerity in not wanting to offend you. But after a long, long time thinking – I think some things are worth offending over. You still have my friendship if you so want it.